willbwell, I tried taking my ring off. Wore it for a week around my neck, wore if for a week on my other hand, both didn't feel comfortable. In my sitch, for the benefit of my boys and me, I will continue to wear the ring on the correct finger and hand. My view about why? Same goes with how long do you act like you are married. I feel that my W supposedly had to put up with my behaviours for years, therefore the most I can do is put up with her behaviour until she decides to divorce or reconcile. It's the least I can do for me, my boys and my W. Also boys never saw me without the ring on the finger, not that they probably would have noticed anyway.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.