I'm a little bit confused right now . If we are heading for reconciliation should we each be doing IC or should we be starting MC together right away? I think H is not quite ready for MC right now. I think he wants to start with IC. I think IC would benefit him but I worry that it will make him change his mind about R. Am I overthinking things? Also, would we start off by dating a bit? Do I let him take the lead for affection like kisses and hugs? Is it a bad idea if he wants to move back in right away? Ahhhhh!!! So many questions. I am just so confused about what to do.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
