Mtnman, I'm sorry to hear this also. I really understand how much it hurts.

She is in denial for this part (D is normal). I'm so proud of your little boy telling her the way it is.

I believe my sons were both instrumental in helping my H see how devastating D would be. Lots of tears were shed on both sides.

Mtnman, you will be in my heart every day. You can be strong, I know! And remember last time she said something in this vein she was chatting with you (texting was it?) early the next day.

Be prepared for the difficulty that back-and-forth wears down on your emotions.

Let us know how you are as things progress. I was worried when I hadn't heard much from you lately.

Every day, Mtnman, every day I think of you and hope for the best.


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway