WAW served me, 2 weeks in, looking for pointers

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Thanks for sharing that Mimi. The hardest part of this process so far has been my own mind. I have constant battles in my head over whether I'm taking the right approach? Is this ultimately going to change anything (The answer is yes since it already changed me)? Should I keep doing the same thing I'm doing with LRT? Are my 180s really 180s or more of the same?

I think we are our own worst enemies in this process. Thats why re-reading the 37 rules and getting support and encouragement have been pivotal for me, and will continue to be.

I know God usually gives us a yes/no/ or wait. Right now I'm feeling a big old wait, so I'll continue at status quo for now.

As far as reading His needs/her needs- I like to gain as much insight into the psychology aspect of this as I can. I am a voracious reader. I finished that one already, and came away from it knowing the financial support need for her is one that changed for us. I'm adjusting pay and things accordingly to try and alleviate that pressure while we're separated. So it was helpful even to get that one piece out of the book.

Any other books you'd recommend for me? I've check out both the DB and DR, I need to read through them again and take notes.