FY, What is your wife's Love Language? What is yours?
My #1 is PT. Hers is everything but.
I'm not able to determine her #1 at the moment, and I surely can't ask her to take the test. Also, I think when they are in crises it could change. (gone back to what was missing in childhood?)
Gifts always seemed important to her. (doesn't want any from me now)
She always seemed to perform a lot of AOS. And has started doing this again. (some who do this are seeking WOA)
WOA were missing in her childhood. She lights up when hearing WOA from others. (says it's "different" when coming from me, because as H I "have to" offer that)
NLT: Thanks so much for the WOA! It really means a lot to me to know I can be helpful to others.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
