Thank you for all the info, Cadet. I've read most of it before, but the refresher course was definitely needed.

H keeps asking me to fly somewhere in Europe to meet him so we can talk someplace "neutral." Says he wants me in his life, that he cares about me, blah, blah, blah.

But at the same time he is partying with OW (one of our workers over there keeps a worker over here informed and then the info is passed to me - even pictures!) and apparently he is taking a trip with her or paying an unexpected visit home. (He changed his log in for his airline account in the past couple of days, so I have no idea what he's up to, but it's definitely something he wants to hide.)

I have not agreed to meet and have actually told him to just go do whatever it is that makes him happy.

Right or Wrong?


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013