Thanks for your feedback AS. The boys don't live with the W. When I move back, myself and the boys will be almost 1000km away from the W. I will tell them I am coming back to be with them. Nothing about the W will be mentioned. Yes, I am hoping to see them more. Also hoping that they will in turn come and see me, rather than me doing all the chasing/ringing etc. But being young adult boys, I have to accept it may be the case that I am doing all the work. AS, as F mentioned, I haven't communicated, nor has she, with each other for a long time now. The boys are talked to every week and usually text/facebook every few days. I believe the W does the same.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
