Yeah, I know exactly what you mean. I'm not D'd, but after over a year of S it seems odd to hear her referred to as my W. So when people say something about my "wife", I almost feel like I need to correct them and let them know we haven't lived together as H and W for quite some time. But I don't, I just let it go. Feels strange though.
Yes, I've been separated for 9 months now and it doesn't feel right to refer to my STBX as my W either.
