Should I confront or not?

[peaceSJ]

Thank you for your reply, MrBond. You're very right. That's exactly what my H is feeling now. He is not very opened person. So I didn't realize the problem until he dropped the bomb. But having affair with OW can not solve the problem but only will hurt me and our kids and also himself. I don't know how long his resentment will last.
I'm trying to detach from him, but also is there anything else I can do? I don't want our kids to live in a broken family.