Follow the advise of the DB book. Give him the space he is requesting. Do not give him a ultimatum, Pressure will cause him to run.

Focus on you and your health, you are priority #1!

Read the many threads on here and you will find you are not alone and will learn so much. Sandi2's 37 rules are golden! Most of the advise may seem counter intuitive but it is your best shot at saving your relationship.

Exercise, sleep & work on becoming a spouse only a fool would leave.

H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.