He's not 'in love' with me

[Pudmuddle]

Sorry to hear about your sitch Callaghan Clown.

I don't blame you for not wanting him in a house you shared. He made his new path, so now he will have to be responsible for how to proceed.

And I hate when they tell the children 'adult feelings'. Especially when they are so young, they cannot comprehend what it really means, they only see that their secure world is falling apart. I had to lay down the rules with my H on that one, even though my S is 16, he doesn't need to have the adult conversations and be his Dad's buddy. He needs his father to be a father and a good role model.

Hopefully, some of the more experienced people here can chime in, as they always have wonderful, upfront advice.

Keep posting to us, we can help and support you in the worst of times.
Pud