Sorry to find you here but this is an awesome place to discover yourself and what you want.
My H is having a second affair as well, and it never feels just as awful as it did the first time. But we need to work on ourselves first before any other improvements follow.
Post lots here, even if to get thoughts out of your head. People will be blunt at times, but it helps you to see where you are stuck.
Wishing you the best, Pud
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
