Questions without answers...I'm tired of asking.

[albamarie]

Being done means putting myself first, and if that looks like having to rid myself of him, then ok, I am ok with that.

I'm not going to poof into a puff of smoke and disappear. The man inside him, if he ever heals and emerges, can find me, then I will take it from there.

But yes, I am done with the treatment, ignorance, lies and feeling down on myself. I'm standing because he won't go away, your right, but I'm not sure it's even standing, if it is I'm standing for me.

Not against him. There is a difference and I think not very productive. He doesn't care. So it's all me, for me and my better future.