lol the 3D ones we go to see are normally the kid's ones. Some of us don't have the privilege of going to see grown up movies with our spouses Nor would I want to, the way he's been behaving lately!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Sorry to jump in but had to add, that prices here for the movies are ridiculous as well. Most cinema's are now about $15 starting price, add another $4 for the 3d glasses that you return and $30 plus dollars for the gold class cinemas that have the comfy seats. No wonder so many people download the movies illegally. You can also imagine the prices for food and drinks.
Feel free to jump in anytime you want HWA It's not a private conversation and we welcome other people's input The cinema we go to doesn't have different prices for seats, but I know some places that do! We pay extra for 3D glasses and films, but you get to keep your 3D glasses and then you don't have to pay for them again The number of times though I've forgotton to take them and had to buy new ones. I could open a stall with the amount that I've got, lol. Talking of 3D glasses, my H borrowed some last time he took my son to the cinema. He brought them back and in his MLC/OCD state told me they were scratch! I've put the glasses in a small bag and put on a lable "apparently these are scratched!" lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Our cinemas charge one price for regular films and a higher price, plus the glasses, for 3D films. We don't go to the 3D ones as I need glasses to see distances and adding the 3D glasses over them just gives me a headache.
Speaking of films, S13 is already thinking about the weekend and has asked if we can go to at least one film - he actually wants to go to two. I know one that he wants to see is the Niki Lauder bio-film, Rush, and I think the other is a kids' film. I'm in for Rush but not so sure about the kids' film - depends which one he wants to see. It'll also depend on how much spare cash I've got.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
Well I'm gonna have to change the subject here, sorry guys H came round this morning and the door was still locked and the key was in the lock so he had to ring the door bell. He said he didn't think I'd be in as he thought I'd be at college. He said he'd been for a walk and desparately needed the toilet. I was getting ready to go to collge, so I carried on doing what I had to do. He opened his mail and as prdicted had a go at me. He asked me when the mail arrived and I said Saturday (it was Friday really!) He said why didn't I let him know and I said because I was expecting round on Sunday. He said "I've got 2 days now to get a doctor's note and send it off." I asked him if he had changed his address and he said that they already knew his address. He then said goodbye and thank you and left in a bad mood! I don't know if I've done the right thing by not telling him. He always expects me to let him know about the mail and this time I didn't! There's a 180 for you, but was I right in not letting him know? He was angry and he put me in a low mood again. When I got to college, I text my friend and asked if she wanted to meet me for lunch. She didn't text back and that put me in a lower mood. She was meant to be in college this morning, so I thought she was ignoring me. I went to get some lunch and then at 12.45 she texted me and said she had just woken up, lol. She was in a better mood today because she's caught up with her sleep She can be really crabby when she doesn't get enough sleep! I did a 180 today on the other 2 girls in my class. I was asking them questions about the coursework that we had to do and one of the girls was being really crabby towards me. I just remained calm and polite to her, I'm really proud of myself I'm going to hold back on the self help books for a while that deal with marriage and relationships and concentrate on books to help myself I'm currently reading Do less and achieve more by Chin-Ning Chu. It's a good read and not too heavy to read Perfect for us declutterers
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
At some point he needs to be responsible for himself and his own actions. I think you did fine and don't need to be responsible for his mail and where it goes. He tried to make you the bad guy by blaming you for the doctor's note. Seriously?
It is hard not to take people not responding to you as a downer. Especially when you feel like you are not getting any love and support right now from anyone close by. I feel the same too and am still learning not to let others affect my mood. It's the only thing I can control!
Good for you on the girls in class! Sometimes if people know you will let them be crabby they just keep doing it. I think it kind of makes them feel better for putting you down. Crazy.
I think you did well and will have a good day because only you can make you happy!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
I agree with Pud. It's not your responsibility for his mail any more - he moved out. If he hasn't changed his address, and it's obvious he hasn't, that's his responsibility. Even if he had turned up as scheduled on Sunday that would have only given him one extra day to sort out the doctor's note - and if your clinics are like the one I used in the South West getting an appointment at short notice is never an issue (unlike here ).
Well done with the girls in your class as well. We've got one lady here at the office that is always grumpy and miserable and always trying to bring everyone else around her down as well - and of course it's the same one that never does anything wrong. If she starts talking down about something, one of us will quickly change the subject.
A couple of posts I saw on FB recently are good ones to remember. First one, the best revenge is to be happy in front of those that hurt you. The second is, laughter is the best medicine. Find yourself a sitcom or something to watch, even if just for a little while and start laughing. You'll feel better in no time
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
Thanks girls I tried really hard today not to let anyone bring me down and tried hard to pick myself up as well I'm better than I was yesterday You're right, he needs to be responsible for his own actions now. He might even ring them up again and change the address. That's if he did that in the first place, which I doubt! I was thinking along the same lines as well NQ, he could only have got an extra day and you can always book an appt really quickly here. He doesn't even have to see the doctor to get a doctor's note either. I like the word you used to describe him Pud Ninny, lol. I'm also proud of the fact I didn't raise my voice at him either but remained cool, calm and collected. A brownie point for me
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Thanks NQ Pud, a virtual glass of wine didn't hurt anyone Cheers!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Nor would I want to, the way he's been behaving lately!
H came round this morning and the door was still locked and the key was in the lock so he had to ring the door bell. He said he didn't think I'd be in as he thought I'd be at college. He said he'd been for a walk and desparately needed the toilet. I was getting ready to go to collge, so I carried on doing what I had to do. He opened his mail and as prdicted had a go at me. He asked me when the mail arrived and I said Saturday (it was Friday really!) He said why didn't I let him know and I said because I was expecting round on Sunday. He said "I've got 2 days now to get a doctor's note and send it off." I asked him if he had changed his address and he said that they already knew his address. He then said goodbye and thank you and left in a bad mood! 
darnit. 