Should I confront or not?

[peaceSJ]

No, I think that's our problem. We were too busy, so we rarely did things together without kids. Also it was always my H initiating sex... So now he feels he was hurt... But I don't think I did it on purpose. I think both of us didn't put our efforts to realize the problem and tried to fix it. Now he doesn't want to, especially he has the OW.