I agree with Pud. It's not your responsibility for his mail any more - he moved out. If he hasn't changed his address, and it's obvious he hasn't, that's his responsibility. Even if he had turned up as scheduled on Sunday that would have only given him one extra day to sort out the doctor's note - and if your clinics are like the one I used in the South West getting an appointment at short notice is never an issue (unlike here frown ).

Well done with the girls in your class as well. We've got one lady here at the office that is always grumpy and miserable and always trying to bring everyone else around her down as well - and of course it's the same one that never does anything wrong. If she starts talking down about something, one of us will quickly change the subject.

A couple of posts I saw on FB recently are good ones to remember. First one, the best revenge is to be happy in front of those that hurt you. The second is, laughter is the best medicine. Find yourself a sitcom or something to watch, even if just for a little while and start laughing. You'll feel better in no time smile


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks