Linda--I'm sorry to hear about the latest turn of events in our lovely CO court system. At least you know that you have been able to hold your head high and remain truthful through this entire sordid mess. I'm so proud of you for continually taking the high road.
When it's all said and done, we'll have more convos on revenge. I am a firm believer in karmic debt and I know you don't want to hear this, but the people I see who elect to take this path age significantly along the way.
You are so damn pretty and passionate that I just can't allow that to happen. I know that life is unfair--really, I finally got this myself--but there comes a point when it all has to be let go.
You're one of the most busy people I know... yet you find time to help those of us in need. PLUS you're a mom to a wonderful young woman--someone who is kind, witty, intelligent and best of all, YOUR FRIEND. You are quite the catch, dear lady. So let's instead convince you to devote your energy putting out vibes so that you attract the right kind of fishies.
Mer--Well, no, I can't have this convo with Mr. W. Having a convo on this subject is a bozo no-no per our MC. Why? It comes across as maternal.
However, if and when the day arrives that he gives me the green light that he's willing to work on things, I'm going to ask him to read Mars/Venus. It drives home the part of nagging to women, and fixing things to men.
So it will just have to go on that list of things to address later on. I truly don't think he realizes how selfish and self absorbed he comes across. The question is WHEN is he going to be willing to take a good inventory of himself?
Who knows... cuz I certainly don't.
I'm feeling a little better today, even though I'm not completely up and running on my new PC yet (I'm running some maintenance in the background as I post here).
Then I'm going to have to get cracking once I am.
So I have some really good feedback from you guys that will be worthwhile if he gives us the chance to really work on things. Right now, the only person who is working is me, and that has been a real energy drain.
Big hugs to all (group hug now),
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."