So my response was this

"If you must do this now you can make the call"

and she responds back;

Is there some reason to wait? I had thought I would wait until the house sold, but that doesn't seem like it is going to happen for a while.

ideas on a response to this????/

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13