Well I'm gonna have to change the subject here, sorry guys H came round this morning and the door was still locked and the key was in the lock so he had to ring the door bell. He said he didn't think I'd be in as he thought I'd be at college. He said he'd been for a walk and desparately needed the toilet. I was getting ready to go to collge, so I carried on doing what I had to do. He opened his mail and as prdicted had a go at me. He asked me when the mail arrived and I said Saturday (it was Friday really!) He said why didn't I let him know and I said because I was expecting round on Sunday. He said "I've got 2 days now to get a doctor's note and send it off." I asked him if he had changed his address and he said that they already knew his address. He then said goodbye and thank you and left in a bad mood! I don't know if I've done the right thing by not telling him. He always expects me to let him know about the mail and this time I didn't! There's a 180 for you, but was I right in not letting him know? He was angry and he put me in a low mood again. When I got to college, I text my friend and asked if she wanted to meet me for lunch. She didn't text back and that put me in a lower mood. She was meant to be in college this morning, so I thought she was ignoring me. I went to get some lunch and then at 12.45 she texted me and said she had just woken up, lol. She was in a better mood today because she's caught up with her sleep She can be really crabby when she doesn't get enough sleep! I did a 180 today on the other 2 girls in my class. I was asking them questions about the coursework that we had to do and one of the girls was being really crabby towards me. I just remained calm and polite to her, I'm really proud of myself I'm going to hold back on the self help books for a while that deal with marriage and relationships and concentrate on books to help myself I'm currently reading Do less and achieve more by Chin-Ning Chu. It's a good read and not too heavy to read Perfect for us declutterers
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
H came round this morning and the door was still locked and the key was in the lock so he had to ring the door bell. He said he didn't think I'd be in as he thought I'd be at college. He said he'd been for a walk and desparately needed the toilet. I was getting ready to go to collge, so I carried on doing what I had to do. He opened his mail and as prdicted had a go at me. He asked me when the mail arrived and I said Saturday (it was Friday really!) He said why didn't I let him know and I said because I was expecting round on Sunday. He said "I've got 2 days now to get a doctor's note and send it off." I asked him if he had changed his address and he said that they already knew his address. He then said goodbye and thank you and left in a bad mood! 
She can be really crabby when she doesn't get enough sleep!
