Thanks so much for checking on my sitch. I'm back home and I'll update soon, but first I wanted to check on you.
I've been keeping up with your sitch and I know how tough it is when everything seems the same and you were sure there would be a big change, whether positive or negative.
About a year ago when xh went public with his ow I was sure that he'd file for d, but no, he didn't. He wouldn't talk to me much, but he wouldn't give me up completely. It's frustrating, because you can see that something has changed, but they refuse to do anything different.
Keep taking care of yourself and eventually you'll figure out what you need to do.
As far as your co-workers, tell them that you appreciate their concern, but you'd prefer to deal with it on your own. If they push, you could always say that you wouldn't want to date any man who was willing to date you while you were still married!
You are a strong woman and you will be okay. Relax and take care of yourself. I like the hot, relaxing bath idea and a glass of wine never hurts.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
