Since you went away....

[albamarie]

Hi Angela, great advise for Linda to hear. It is amazing how much as women we allow our H attitude or mode for the day to disrupt us.

This is something we are working very hard on. That slammed door, that walk past you as if he's a ghost, the empty look of annoyance when he does look at you, and then there's the grin you hope is a sign until you realize he's looking thru you.

I read your post about...is it all worth it? That is my battle because I have started to realize that even one more day of being sad, or neglected is not worth it. Worth it in the end to hold on because he will be back, do we want to gamble our lives on these men.

I have started to take the turn towards my future, my kids and family and things I haven't even accomplished yet. I figure this, if he does the MLC wake, he can come find me. Either way, it will be worth it because I will have still been living my life.

Mine makes all the threats as I read your does, we are 5yrs into this including 2.8 yrs of threats, crying, talking, and nothing has changed, nothing I do, nor any of his threats. Stay strong Angela, my best to you!

And, my best for Linda, your doing so much better than you think. Just relax, and make sure you get your sleep!