Newcomer here, first post. As ive noticed newcomers are on moderation so i shall keep the posts short. Just a brief intro, ive been married 8 years, together 11, im 31, H 30, we have 3 kids ages 4,5 & 8. This is my second experience with infidelity (H, not me) and recently found out that there has been more than 2 affairs. My T recommended me the DR Book and directed me to this website. Thanks in advance forall your support and i'll be posting more soon.