ToMrBond,25yearsmic,big bruce,Lostinscared,crimson

[Brahmin]

25 ,thanks for the reply, I am not Bruce. We have a joint custody for 1 year and she was not following things. And she constantly had excuses. Towards the end , she asked for a court hearing. Before that she asked me indirectly saying I still see that you havnt called off on the intial divorce filing. I said if you want to talk about it let's talk. She did not come and talk. Time passed and i was not arguing or demanding things. She sends me court date. Now when I got the court date , I asked her can we settle the case with out the trial and all the discovery and lot of useless waste of emotional toll on all. She agreed to come up with an a 100% custody and 1 wknd/ month that is 2 days a month. I asked for joint custody and she being the primary care giver and 4 days a month. She aggred for 4 days a month and wants full custody. I texted her saying its not fair, I am his biological father. Not sure why she is stuck on full custody. She says that's my final offer other wise we will go to trial i said, it for the benifits of the kid that we need to have joint custody with her being the primary care giver.