A lot of folks back off the board some when they are making a transition and especially if pulls their mood down. It's okay. But I know I always like to hear how you're doing. It is so good to hear how you have grown and are now able to move forward and have a personal life. And if you should decide to leave us, I hope it will be b/c you are happy & adjusting to your new life.
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My brother has just got his adopted daughter today. I cancelled my days off so he could spend it with his family. I don't feel like I need it. I will have to see W when I pick up the kids but that doesn't phase me either. I might feel different on Friday, time will tell. I'm quite glad to be feeling this way, it could have been a really hard time for me.
Oh I bet there are some excited people around your brother's house! I'm happy to hear the good news they are getting their baby.
As for your anniversary....it is only human to experience some type of feelings about it. But instead of waiting to see "how" or "what" you may feel when the day arrives and allow the emotion to dictate the rest of your day, decide that whatever you may feel that day...you are fine and will continue to be fine. You may experience some occasions, for a while, that you feel sentimental. We all do. Life goes on. With us or without us. You will be just fine, T.
So, when do you get to see the new baby girl? Have you bought her anything yet?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
