I think the key is that if it's MLC, there's nothing YOU can do to fix it. Going dim/dark is only for YOU and won't fix it. GALing is for YOU and won't fix it. MLC is a journey and long process that they have to go through without YOU. So, to flip the situation on its head, now it's time for YOU to go on your journey and learn about yourself and how YOU can be best YOU possible.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy