Z--Yes, what to DO with this information is what has me intrigued. My guess is that my H will not figure this out by himself... unless he's actually doing that introspection.
And although we know people can and do change, unless they are motivated to do so, it is unlikely.
Welcome to the sea here. Berto has had good things to say about you, so it must be true.
Myrrh--I posted an answer to you on your thread. Big hugs. I know this path will be a big hard for a bit. You've got friends here who can help.
Nighty night to all in the deep blue sea.
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
