Maritimer, thanks. Strength, I'm not so sure about, tho.

Patience, knowing who I wanted to become, a willingness to dig so deep it hurt, developing empathy, letting go of judgment and superiority; those are the things that come to mind. For some reason in my head I see strength as static and this is not a process in which you can stand in place.

My story was a success when I left him on the day of "The Temp Check." I would rather be who I am now with no H, over who I was 2 years ago, with H.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss