Thanks for the inspiration TSquared!! I am doing pretty good today, happy that I had that talk with him yesterday and hopefully we can (slowly) start to move forward. Now I have to do a whole bunch of reading up on what to do next! It seems like he is worried and scared about this next step for us and he is looking to me for answers on how to move forward. Guess I had better get reading! wink

-cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.