I like your way of looking at it TSquared smile I think your kind of attitude towards life, and sense of humour is what's needed in hard times, it's what keeps us sane. Keep at it, you are doing really good.
-cp


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.