All of this is going to look much different to you in six weeks. Nothing about your marriage needs to be decided today or tomorrow or next week or even in 3 weeks.

Focus on you, he can take care of himself.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss