I am having the exact same struggle as you. Wondering maybe she wants to be asked? I mean we work so hard to improve ourselfs they would be a fool not to want to be with the improved you!

Most advise here seem to steer away from temp checking.

Going to check out labug thread to see how that went.

H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.