Bug has it right. Unless you are in a place where you can hear every possible answer and not let it affect your path in any way, then I would advise against it.
But, sometimes we just gotta know some things to make that next big step. I also know that you should be continuing on your own path regardless, but the simple truth is that we love theses people. While detachment is the ultimate goal, there is no timeline on how long they stay in our hearts and, yes, to some extent, affect our lives.
