Yes I see what you're saying. For me, it would be hard to imagine having fulfilling sex with someone I didn't love, but that's just me and there is nothing at all wrong with viewing that differently.

So when will you have the open marriage discussion with W?

When will you start practicing open marriage and how do you plan to find partners?

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015