ToMrBond,25yearsmic,big bruce,Lostinscared,crimson

[25yearsmlc]

Yes. DO NOT give in!

What she's asking for is ridiculous.

How can you tell? I can't decode. Bond, please explain what was proposed and all that.

Also, Bruce, when you say you want to settle out of court, I can't help but think you want her to be alone with you again. Is that it?

I would veer away from that for now. If you have been getting him two weekends a month, why would that change?

Also, is it primary physical custody she wants or "total full" or what?
You say she wants 100% custody but then you say she wants to share him...which is it?

Many times couples have "joint" custody and decide issues together (like health and schooling for the child...)

but one parent has the child a bit more (or a lot more).

I'm not clear on what you are saying is happening.

Please try saying it again for me. Thanks