A Fresh, New Day

[Pudmuddle]

So to continue the day, my H called on my way home from work to ask if i was going to kickboxing or not, I said 'No probably not, since it was so nice out I wanted to take the dog for a jog.' H said 'ok' and then asked if I could pick up son later since his classes and h's class were at varying times. I said 'sure'.

When I went to pick son up, I was dressed in some of the hot clothes I purchased over the weekend. As I waited for my son I watched H's class and he noticed the clothes I was wearing cuz he kind of looked me over. Then I told him quickly about an accident on his route home, how it was blocking everything. Then S and I left.

When H came home I was watching a funny show with S, S went to bed and then I sat watching tv for about 10 mins then handed the remote to H and before I could leave he talked to me about how most of the bills were caught up and we were looking ok for the next few weeks. I said 'Ok sounds good'. Then before I could leave again he asked if my S and I were going to go see my mom over Thanksgiving or Christmas. I said 'I hadn't really thought about it'. He said 'Well I have some money I can set aside for that, would you like me to do that?' I said 'Yeah sure'.

It struck me as kind of odd that he was asking about that already and didn't really include himself in our plans. Makes me wonder if OW is asking him to plan something for those days...

He then followed me up and asked about some money I had spent over the weekend. I showed him the new rugs for the bathroom and blanket I had bought for the bed. He said. 'Oh yeah'. I thought he was leaving the room and then he came back in and kind of paused. Didn't say anything, but then watched one of our dogs walk into the room and then he left.

Very odd behavior. I am wondering if there is something he wants to say, but doesn't have the guts right now to bring it up. He is a conflict avoider, after all.

I'm just patient, friendly and doing my thing. SIGH