WAW served me, 2 weeks in, looking for pointers

[Mimi00]

I've never read "His needs, her needs" but I assume its for couples who aren't currently seperated? I say for now stick to DB... as anything you do for her she'll think is just to get her to come back and not real. Stay focused on you and your changes.

If you've rededicated your self to Christ....focus on that relationship...let it change you for the better. Wake up a little earlier in the AM and pray then read your Bible. Purchase some Christian music....I don't know what type of music you're in to, but I just purchased Tye Tribett's "Greater Than"...It has really helped me to take my mind off of my sitch and give me hope. Purchase some sermons on CD to listen to in your car. Get your self strong in your relationship w/ God before even reaching out to your W again. If there ever is a chance for R in the future w/ her, your spiritual strength is what's going to shine and pull you through. So if you're sincere about your new walk with God, put him first, everything else will fall in to place where it needs to after that.

All the best to you.