I'm not in a mental place to validate him currently, if I'm being honest, I cannot respect any man that would do this to his children. Maybe, it makes me just as a bad, but I'm way too tired working and talking care of my boys to care about what he thinks about me. If he do talk again, which is highly doubtful, I'll try validating but I've got nothin left in me for him.
Snodderly, thank you for checking in. S14 messaged H, at my request, to say he wasn't going to thanksgiving. We've planned to do something else. H served me with some more paperwork to move divorce proceeding along and now S18 is thinking he may not go to thanksgiving now either. I talked to my lawyer and she told me about he papers but did say nothing would go before a judge until at least he new year. She said these things take time and I said someone needs to explain that to H because He's lost it. He did file, with the Supreme Court a change to our status so that I can't borrow money against the house which is actually better for me as he can't borrow money against the house, which he would do.
It amazes me has money for his lawyer and to register paperwork with the courts but money for his kids he has nothing.
I gratefully accept all your prayers Rosa and wbw
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR
