If you can't be without expectation or at least lowered expectations then it is definitely wiser to stay out of the way.

You're trying to strategize and that won't work. You need to figure out who you want to be, your best self and be that.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss