Welcome our forum. I'm sorry you are here, but the posters here are wonderful and will come along shortly to visit.
May I ask a couple of questions...did something happen about 18-24 months prior to the first bomb drop (BD) 7 years ago? Did something change to bring him back into the marriage after that little crisis time? If so, can you tell me?
From what you posted, it sounds like he may have been in crisis back 7 years ago and something snatch him back to reality and now he's started the process all over again...but we need to know more about that BD and the current one before we can try to help you figure some things out.
For now, protect yourself and your assets.
Cadet will be along shortly w/some homework reading material.
Again welcome to our forum!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
