All that dating stuff is for 12 months down the line ,I need to do plenty of healing before I delve into that again.
Not posted here for a few weeks but I’ve been on another MLC site more to understand MLC rather than the divorce process.
The divorce process here was slowing up because W was focussing her attention on OM and their night time manoeuvres, but apparently OM has binned W for his regular partner and posted pictures of their make up vacation on facebook, a few days after he and W has a weekend away. I think there is still minor contact but W is not getting incessant text messages and staying out late like she has been.
So with no OM around W is pushing the D again, The decree nisi to desolve the marriage has been issued and will be read out in court October 16th. W just pushing for “her” money, so we are at the bank tomorrow to agree the loan. Once we know the amount we can get it put into the written agreement. The decree absolute for final divorce likely to be in December, W will then move in with her mother and look for a house in the spring time. (well that’s her story).
My emotions have been up and down but the end is in sight, So for now I keep doing my stuff which is gym and sculpting my body and reconnecting with family, most of my friends from the old days are out of the picture so I guess it’s time to make new ones.