Because all cheaters lie -- PERIOD.

You need to accept that, and stop trying to get him to admit it and just deal with the painful reality of it, and go from there.

Does it really change your strategy if he admits it or not, when you already know it's true anyway?

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)