Adinva,

Here is something that my W has said.

Whenever she wants to say something to me, she has a full conversation in her head prior to her actually talking to me. She plays out all of my normal responses and at times, she has decided to not say anything as she has talked herself into what I would say/react, so why bother.

So now it is very hard for her to not do that and give me the benefit communicating more healthy. I don't blame her!


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy