Forgot to mention, W was REAL flirty with me, came up behind me and pushed her boobs in my back, and giggled. I put my arm around and squeezed her butt, and she waggled her eyebrows at me. We watched some TV and I laid leaning on her with my hand in her leg, and she just laughed at the show with me.
You truly have the most peculiar form of "going dark/ dim" that I have ever read about on these forums. Strangely, anyone else here would call this "pursuit". I've said it before Jon, but you can't have it both ways. You can't have contact every couple of days and call the day or two in between "dim" because you didn't reply to a text or two. If you think that's dim then you completely misunderstand the concept. At one point you said you were mistakenly saying "dim" when what you really meant was "detached", but you are not even in the ballpark of "detached" either.
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I got mad. I felt like I had been used the whole day.
That because you're still firmly latched into a car on the roller coaster. You have the choice of stepping off the ride FOR REAL. In DR, MWD talks about how we humans don't like change, we like to do the same things even when we know they don't work. So we put a different name on it and convince ourselves we're doing something different when we're really not. Your use of dark/ dim is just sticking a different name on the same old pursuing behavior. Remember the cheeseless tunnels!
