Looking for New Options If H Wants Divorce

[MyNewStrength]

Thank you AS, Wonka and JonF for your input. I revised my note and here it is:

Thank you for your email. I am sorry that you feel disappointed.

I appreciate you letting me know that you'll be contacting the utilities to cancel them and I'll follow up with them to transfer them to my name. I will not be making any rash decisions about my future. All of this is a lot for me to deal with and I need time to process it all, I hope you understand and can be accommodating. I am going to take my time to research my choices. I would like to get a PSA in place by the holidays. There are still components of the PSA that we need to discuss to make it all fair and equitable.

In regard to the cost sharing of the mortgage, what did you have in mind?

Before picking up any items from the house, I would ask that you please write up a list of items that you want for the apartment and send it to me. We both need to come to an agreement on this point to ensure that these are sorted out satisfactorily for us. After we've agreed to the division of furniture, then we can set up a day and time for you to come by to pick them up.