Its wonderful that he is making an effort to communicate with you.
I find, as with myself, I am my own worse enemy. Negative thoughts of your spouse with another person just spiral into heartache. Its beyond your control.
Exercise and get some rest, your sounding silly
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.