I think it's way too heavy-handed and is stooping to his level. Here are my suggested changes:
Originally Posted By: MyNewStrength
Husband
I will not be making any rash decisions about my future. Therefore, if you wish this divorce to be amicable, you would be well advised to stop bullying me while I catch my breath.All of this is a lot for me to deal with and I need time to process it all, I hope you understand and can be accommodating. I would like to get a PSA in place by the holidays.
I am going to take my time to research my choices and the more you pressure, the less likely I am to cooperate with you or even stay in contact with you.
Please remove your illusions that I want to be married to the man you are. I am taking my time to grieve the man you killed off, that I loved, who was good and kind - I recognize he is lost and I'm coming to terms that he is not coming back.
There are still components of the PSA that we need to discuss to make it all fair and equitable.
He's obviously trying to provoke you with his thinly veiled threats, don't fall for it. Remember to always take the high road. Behave in a way that you will always be proud of when looking back in the future.
