Looking for New Options If H Wants Divorce

[MyNewStrength]

Here is my first draft for a response to him. Comments?:

Husband

I will not be making any rash decisions about my future. Therefore, if you wish this divorce to be amicable, you would be well advised to stop bullying me while I catch my breath. I would like to get a PSA in place by the holidays.

I am going to take my time to research my choices and the more you pressure, the less likely I am to cooperate with you or even stay in contact with you.

Please remove your illusions that I want to be married to the man you are. I am taking my time to grieve the man you killed off, that I loved, who was good and kind - I recognize he is lost and I'm coming to terms that he is not coming back.

There are still components of the PSA that we need to discuss to make it all fair and equitable.