Oh TTD, I still attach my feelings to how my H responds or not, something I am working on too. You just want them to be happy. I am getting better at being happy just for me and not base it off of how I think he is feeling. Hard though. And yes it does come out at other people too. I snapped at my dog, who had done nothing, and I felt terrible because I knew it wasn't his fault, just my tension coming out.

When my S and I went to a movie the other day, I gave him $20 to go get something to eat. He came back with $13 and a small bag of popcorn. 7 dollars for a bag of popcorn! SHEESH. It's crazy, and yet people still keep buying that cruddy food!

You are getting stronger, I can see it in your posts. Hang in there!


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.