FY, I was wondering if you have read the book "The Five Love Langauages", by Gary Chapman? I read it a few months ago and it helped me figure out how to make my W feel loved, with no pressure, and without realizing that I was doing anything different.
I wish I had read it years ago. I think my R would have turned out differently if I had.
Also, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" has helped me understand a lot of things.
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13