FY,
I was wondering if you have read the book "The Five Love Langauages", by Gary Chapman? I read it a few months ago and it helped me figure out how to make my W feel loved, with no pressure, and without realizing that I was doing anything different.

I wish I had read it years ago. I think my R would have turned out differently if I had.

Also, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" has helped me understand a lot of things.


Me:52
Wife:49
Married 19 years
Son:16
Daughter:14
Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013
Wife moved out 2Jun13

W filed for D 22Sep13