Originally Posted By: Pudmuddle
I would hold his chin and look into his eyes deeply and just look. You can tell by the eyes.

Yep, when the old them peeps out the eyes are a lot clearer and more focused. Not to mention that at those times, H will actually make eye contact with me a lot more. The rest of the time he'll avoid eye contact and his eyes aren't very focused when he does accidentally make eye contact.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks